There’s a name for that awkward dance you do with strangers in the elevator

In the subway, at the laundromat, in public libraries, even in the restroom—the seemingly asocial spaces of modern life—we are constantly, silently negotiating with strangers. Half-glances, polite smiles, unconscious sidesteps. In 1963, the sociologist Erving Goffman coined a term for this quiet discourse: civil inattention.
While civil inattention’s specific gestures—a quick, open gaze across the swimming pool, a pursing of the lips down the train aisle& … Read More → "There’s a name for that awkward dance you do with strangers in the elevator"










